There is a Secret to Make Your Ex Return Your Call
There are 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
I know that this sounds hard to believe, but there ARE words that will seem to cast a
spell that will make your ex feel compelled to return your call.
Why am I going to share this with you? Because this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers Who are trying to put their relationship back together.
So -- "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
In the Magic Of Making Up, I show you the complete strategy. If you use this technique alone,
without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Prior to getting into the actual words to say, let's go over what almost NEVER works,
and worse... Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
There are two categories that fall into this category.
The PLEADING
"Frank, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
The EMERGENCY
"Joyce, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."
I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
Curiosity & Self Interest
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
"Hi Frank. It's Joyce. I just wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Frank will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" And he feels good because it is a positive message.
But before you call you need to do the figure out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs something that they can relate to. Please have a strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique without a strategy and they call you back, more DAMAGE than
good could happen.
The things that you set up before, during and after you get them to return your call is
MORE important than getting them to return your call.